The perfect match
When people partner up, they often describe their mate
as perfect for them. They use terms like soulmate, they say, we read each other’s
minds, we complete each other’s sentences. Some even feel a calling to dedicate
their lives to making their other happy. In this perfect match, this feeling is
reciprocated. It’s not 50/50, it is 100%/100%.
The younger you are, the more obstacles there are to achieve
this.
First, many younger couples don’t think too deeply on
this subject, if at all. They’re in lust and this is love. For those who do
think about compatibility, there are likely big disappointments ahead. Those
who don’t, may wake up someday and declare they have made a big mistake, “she’s
lost interest in me, sexually [Male POV].” “He’s not sweet anymore.” With an approx.
50% divorce rate, something’s wrong for any type of couple, whether they are
thoughtful or not.
The problem for thoughtful couples is in the
dedication. How can you dedicate your life to the other, like a Mother Theresa,
when you have responsibilities? There’re the kids, the jobs, social
engagements, family.
You’re older now, more reflective. You may have a lot
more time to make someone else happy, and passionately.
The moral of the story for writers. Don’t forget all
the issues that tear couples apart. And consider “second time around”
relationships as an open field to explore the meaning of dedication.
It is my opinion that to find the truest love is to
know one’s purpose in the universe. To be fulfilled in an eternal way.
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