I had to stop right there. I read an article that said that most men’s thoughts are driven by what they see. True, men are visual. False, men don’t have abiding agendas and/or worries that influence and predominate their thoughts. Human beings work, have family, friends, interests. To not do these things is self-destructive.
I must admit that the sight of a lovely woman might make a man pack away his preoccupations for a moment. But after he gets over how pretty that stranger is, he’s back to solving his “real” problems, especially if he’s married. If he’s a bachelor then we need add one more item to his agenda, a mate. Still balancing all his concerns means he’ll ask that woman out on a date at some mutually good time for both. Unlike what happens on ABC’s Bachelor franchise where finding a mate consumes every waking moment. Those who go on the show make a conscious decision to shelve their normal lives for a couple months in an effort to accelerate their search for a partner.
Off point, but interesting and heart-warming: Cudos to ABC through Bachelor in Paradise in which the first lesbian couple in the history of the show became engaged.
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