Yes,
yes, they’re bought to match other apparel. But a guy doesn’t see that, no
matter if he’s alpha, beta, gamma, an artist or creative type. Addressing his
growth in understanding the opposite sex is necessary in a romance, but I’d be
wary of expecting too much in the shoe department.
Once
upon a time, guys (and sometimes, some gals) went hunting and brought home to
the cave protein necessary for survival. The women used everything they could from
the kill or catch. The more pelts, bones, etc., the more successful the tribe.
Guys
often laugh with buddies, about their lack of closet space or the amount of shoes Imelda
(insert wife’s name here) has. Why is this funny? Guys see survival (the kids’
education, food on the table) and think of the cost of said shoes and try to
smile because they love their mates. Gals see a successful marriage. Although
they aren’t strictly in a tribe, they are in a village of their making. Women
are more social, generally. So, to not dress properly sends the message to
their friends that their marriage has failed. Men don’t usually wear many
variants. Their tribal message when they dress solidly is that their marriage
is successful.
So
you can tell a guy until you are blue in the face about this and he won’t
understand. Listen, I’m a senior citizen. I just figured it out last night. But
us renaissance men do eventually solve problems.
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